PIGEONS TAKE FLIGHT.

We all know the pigeon….this bird can make uncharacteristic loud noises.

This bird is also one UNSTABLE creature….even a little breeze leave alone wind makes it take flight. So of course you are all wondering where this going…..well we have human beings loitering around with this particular bird’s less attractive characteristics and qualities.

As it is with human nature….WE ALL NEED LOVE. We search for it. We crave it. We yearn for it. We thirst for it. In some cases it gets really crazy. Where people go through GRIEF to take abuse and tolerate things and situations which they wouldn’t tolerate on any normal day just to have that ‘illusion’ of love around you or with you.

Im not an expert on love and like I have stated in my previous articles….LOYALTY is part of the cornerstones of love. I have witnessed a whole lot of people sleeping around in the hope of something evolving from the ‘one-night stand’ or ‘fling’ or ‘friends with benefits’. Which usually never end up in something meaningful. We should learn to state our business. Literally. No need to string someone along and toy with their feelings that’s just downright inhuman.

What do I mean by ‘we should state our business’……if you are old enough to be having sex then you are old enough to know that feelings HURT!! Especially when not reciprocated. I mean if you are out to just have fun then SAY it!! Let the other party decide if they can handle that. If you are tired of games and waking up in different beds with different partners then STATE IT! If you have a girlfriend/boyfriend but fidelity is not your virtue….then please let the ‘side-whatever’ KNOW! At times we get ourselves into situations that are seriously UNNECESSARY. You attract what you project.

IM NOT PROMOTING INFIDELITY. Im just saying let’s stop putting ourselves in highly volatile and unnecessary and situations. Because honestly so many of us out there are just busy ending up in bed with different partners then catching feelings and ending up in SITUATIONSHIPS!! And the question is…..WHAT FOR??

If people knew how SACRED, IMPORTANT and VALUABLE sex/making love is….you wouldn’t be having it with just anyone. Plus there’s HYGEINE to be considered!!

After all that ‘romping’…..who has your back??? Who can you call in the middle of the night for help?? Who would come to see you when you are sick?? Who would hold you when your life is chaotic? Do you really need ‘pigeons’ in your life? Pigeons who take flight at the first sign of trouble? I don’t think so.

What we all NEED is a SPHINX who’ll hold down the fort while our worlds are crushing down around us. Someone who’ll love you even when you don’t love yourself. Someone who’ll believe in you when you don’t believe in yourself and probably being ridiculed by the society.

Most people don’t believe such people exist….truth is they do….but they don’t come easy as your ‘romp’ buddies. You will only find them or they find you when you stop being a pigeon yourself. Clean out your closet. Raise your own standards by ditching all the bad detrimental habits.

Let the pigeons in you GO!!

Anyone who’s in your life and wants to leave….let them GO! If they come back..well and good. Sometimes some things need to fall apart in order to fall back together. Don’t cage a pigeon!! Its MISERY your breeding.

If you TRULY gave any relationship in your life everything you’ve got and someone still wants to exit for some mistake you made and can’t seem to get over it….let them GO! Let that be their mistake. The harsh reality check they’ll get out there will be their cross to carry.

The other characteristic of a pigeon that I haven’t mentioned and most people don’t know is that they are INTELLIGENT enough to know where ‘HOME’ is…….set your pigeon free if it wants to take flight….if you are where home is…they’ll be back problem is they aren’t all that ‘punctual’.

So who needs a ‘late’ pigeon when you have a rock solid SPHINX?? Doesn’t even have to be ‘punctual’.

Let’s stop the pigeon act ourselves first.

Then let’s LET GO of the pigeons in our lives.

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