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PIGEONS TAKE FLIGHT.

We all know the pigeon….this bird can make uncharacteristic loud noises.

This bird is also one UNSTABLE creature….even a little breeze leave alone wind makes it take flight. So of course you are all wondering where this going…..well we have human beings loitering around with this particular bird’s less attractive characteristics and qualities.

As it is with human nature….WE ALL NEED LOVE. We search for it. We crave it. We yearn for it. We thirst for it. In some cases it gets really crazy. Where people go through GRIEF to take abuse and tolerate things and situations which they wouldn’t tolerate on any normal day just to have that ‘illusion’ of love around you or with you.

Im not an expert on love and like I have stated in my previous articles….LOYALTY is part of the cornerstones of love. I have witnessed a whole lot of people sleeping around in the hope of something evolving from the ‘one-night stand’ or ‘fling’ or ‘friends with benefits’. Which usually never end up in something meaningful. We should learn to state our business. Literally. No need to string someone along and toy with their feelings that’s just downright inhuman.

What do I mean by ‘we should state our business’……if you are old enough to be having sex then you are old enough to know that feelings HURT!! Especially when not reciprocated. I mean if you are out to just have fun then SAY it!! Let the other party decide if they can handle that. If you are tired of games and waking up in different beds with different partners then STATE IT! If you have a girlfriend/boyfriend but fidelity is not your virtue….then please let the ‘side-whatever’ KNOW! At times we get ourselves into situations that are seriously UNNECESSARY. You attract what you project.

IM NOT PROMOTING INFIDELITY. Im just saying let’s stop putting ourselves in highly volatile and unnecessary and situations. Because honestly so many of us out there are just busy ending up in bed with different partners then catching feelings and ending up in SITUATIONSHIPS!! And the question is…..WHAT FOR??

If people knew how SACRED, IMPORTANT and VALUABLE sex/making love is….you wouldn’t be having it with just anyone. Plus there’s HYGEINE to be considered!!

After all that ‘romping’…..who has your back??? Who can you call in the middle of the night for help?? Who would come to see you when you are sick?? Who would hold you when your life is chaotic? Do you really need ‘pigeons’ in your life? Pigeons who take flight at the first sign of trouble? I don’t think so.

What we all NEED is a SPHINX who’ll hold down the fort while our worlds are crushing down around us. Someone who’ll love you even when you don’t love yourself. Someone who’ll believe in you when you don’t believe in yourself and probably being ridiculed by the society.

Most people don’t believe such people exist….truth is they do….but they don’t come easy as your ‘romp’ buddies. You will only find them or they find you when you stop being a pigeon yourself. Clean out your closet. Raise your own standards by ditching all the bad detrimental habits.

Let the pigeons in you GO!!

Anyone who’s in your life and wants to leave….let them GO! If they come back..well and good. Sometimes some things need to fall apart in order to fall back together. Don’t cage a pigeon!! Its MISERY your breeding.

If you TRULY gave any relationship in your life everything you’ve got and someone still wants to exit for some mistake you made and can’t seem to get over it….let them GO! Let that be their mistake. The harsh reality check they’ll get out there will be their cross to carry.

The other characteristic of a pigeon that I haven’t mentioned and most people don’t know is that they are INTELLIGENT enough to know where ‘HOME’ is…….set your pigeon free if it wants to take flight….if you are where home is…they’ll be back problem is they aren’t all that ‘punctual’.

So who needs a ‘late’ pigeon when you have a rock solid SPHINX?? Doesn’t even have to be ‘punctual’.

Let’s stop the pigeon act ourselves first.

Then let’s LET GO of the pigeons in our lives.

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THE FAULT IN OUR 'STARS'.

R ‘STARS’

Been battling with a particular issue for several months now…..i genuinely don’t know how to express it or what to think of it. All I know is that its SAD. To the extent that it left me SPEECHLESS and anyone who knows me well that RARELY happens.

So this particular issue has got a lot to do with friendship. Yes ‘friendship’. This particular term appears to have lost meaning. Genuinely. Then the most overrated term is the famous ‘BFF’ (Best Friends Forever). And I im about to use this term very loosely in conjuction with the series of dumbfounding events that have transpired for close to a year now.

There are many crimes, mistakes, transgressions and trespasses I have made in my lifetime but one mistake no one can ever accuse me of in this lifetime or the next is DISLOYALTY. Yet as life being the ‘bitch’ she is would have it….i ended up being accused of this heinous crime. Im using the word ‘henious’ because I GENUINELY despise hypocrisy and ADORE loyalty. So im just here….like…err…..FLABBERGASTED. Absolutely, sincerely, honestly etc.

I have made a stand especially with this particular trait that has gotten so SCARCE with our generation and ofcourse I lost friends and even people I loved because honestly it doesn’t cost a thing yet so valuable but here we are acting like it doesn’t matter. Like we can leave without it but truth be told no man is an island. No money in the world can buy it. No amount of relationships can ever survive without it. People keep trying and failing. So if its that worthless why cant we live without it??? Because truth be told whether we like it or not……the epitome of ‘TRUE LOVE’ is LOYALTY. You cannot love someone if you can't be loyal to that person. It’s a LIE.

So I have been having this ‘BFF’ type of friendship for close to 20 years now….or rather had. Then my BFF just goes MUTE on me and I knowing when im not wanted…..i kept I my distance for over 6 months. Made me wonder if we ever BFFs in the 1^st place.

Then the already ‘frozen titanic’ hit the tip of an ‘iceberg’ and a whole GIGANTIC, HUMONGOUS iceberg that was obviously hidden underneath came to life and of course with women the ‘claws’ came out. And a whole lot of ‘ice’ (accusations) started flying all over the already FROZEN sea.

So apparently out of close to 20 years Gertrude cant seem to keep her mouth shut about her ‘BFF’…….and im just here like what in the world im I saying after 20 years that I never said before??? Why now?? I had 20 years to do the ‘talking’! And everyone who knows im a PASSIONATE SPEAKER!!

Then I had an EPIPHANY!!! My ‘BFF’ and I had always led different lives throughout our friendship! We both belonged to different circles and had diverse different friends that hardly ever mixed. And everyone RESPECTED and even FEARED our friendship. Then as fate would have it…our friendship got thrown into a group of ‘SHARKS’. LITERALLY. Where we had to work and ‘hang out’ constantly in the same circle due to some venture we were pursuing.

So in actual sense our friendship had never been tried and tested. Sure it got scratched….thanks to life throwing around lemons. But our friendship had never gotten an actual SMACK DOWN. So honestly our friendship finally got a piece of the pie and got it PROPERLY.

But that’s not the issue. The issue here is……if a friendship as old as ours didn’t survive the smack down and with its ‘BFF’ status what does that mean??? Were we ever really friends?!

So lets get CANDID. Or rather….UNCENSORED…..I have never taken a beating lying down and I sure wont start now! You accused me of spreading the gospel about your personal stuff and issues you were going through at that particular time. PRECISELY at that particular time. NOT all the previous 19 years. Correct? Ok. The TRILLION dollar question here is can you for the life of Christ claim just one particular issue you had at the time that you told me ALONE??? Just ONE. And you heard it elsewhere??

My darling ‘BFF’ truth be told you got very comfortable spreading the gospel with EVERYONE who would listen. And the SAME me preaching it was the one who would chew your head off about telling people who were very much celebrating behind your back! You gave details that I prided myself as your ‘BFF’ to carry them. But I would be left DUMBFOUNDED when I find myself seated with people who were even discussing the same things you had confided in me. And I was just left wondering……WTF?!????!!!???!! You should have just gone on and posted them on Al Jazeera! There was clearly NOTHING ‘confidential’ about them. Then as the mask falls off you had the audacity to tell me that you asked me ‘indirectly’?! SERIOUSLY?? Since when did you and I ask each other ANYTHING ‘INDIRECTLY’????

So after all is said and done…..you’ve got people in your boat drilling holes.

We missed phenomenal changes and achievements of each other’s lives because you couldn’t sit me down like an adult and ‘DIRECTLY’ pour out your grievances and we see the whether we would have moved on and grown stronger or simply agree to disagree and move on separately in peace.

Such is the ill fate that befell our 20yr old friendship. I still love but I hate you at the same time.

Time heals all wounds and im counting on it to work faster in this case.

Yours,

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HATING

Honestly I'm just left dumbfounded by the little things human beings would go to great lengths to turn something or someone awesome into something negative or find ways to ridicule them or 'it'.

There are genuine haters out there no lie. For some people: you are just a pathological liar with really shallow thinking and are just mentally WEAK with no solid character and a very shaky personality with very little or no substance! No one likes you! Don't get it twisted and call people haters when you genuinely disgust them and call their creative criticism 'hating' when if you'd actually hear them out it would help you. WAKE UP!

Personally, I've been stung relentlessly and at times I was led to believe that honestly something is wrong with me. I have two faults that at times I often regret one and other really rare times I'm left to question if I should work on relinquishing the other. These two unique faults are....the first is the fact that I love myself unconditionally inside and out. The second is I've got the abnormal tendency of being abnormally LOYAL even when most people don't deserve even an iota of it!

They'll come crying about their issues with a spouse, a friend, a relative, a colleague, a neighbour even their pet! Then turn against you when you show your support and loyalty when you act just the way you'd expect someone who 'claims' to be loyal to you to. So you give the 'culprits' (offending or causing harm to the person your loyal to) the cold shoulder,shut them up even before they start 'hating' on your loved one though at times they are really just telling their side of the story,throw daggers at them with your eyes or even threaten to cripple them if they cause your loved one any more harm or unhappiness.

Then your loved one ends up treating you like the villain! And your left wondering how in the world you could be so hopelessly loyal and get burnt because of it! Then other downside is that no one stands up for you when shit hits the fan or when push comes to shove. Everyone appears to believe the other party concerned or believe the worst about you in the situation. So what if you made a mistake or said the worst thing possible? I'm human! And I'm a work in progress! I never said I'm perfect! I never said I don't or won't make mistakes! Plus I know I lack tolerance and I'm a really bad listener plus I have someone else inside me I believe when I get angry who just ties me up and literally jumps out and handles the person offending or annoying me. Just to name but a few of my faults. But you who runs off to call me a mean bitch! Or go on to preach how horrible a person i am and how you are such a victim in the whole scenario. How are you any better? Honestly projecting how you've been victimized isn't honest or genuine. Its pity you'll get and the what? Will it make you any closer to God or make you any better? Do you what the people your preaching to about me say after your gone about you?! Because your thinking is so already biased! Time ALWAYS unearths the truth and genuine characters no matter how badly slandered will always land on their feet.

              Yours sincerely;

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