DESPICABLE US!

 It is with great insight and experience in the mediocrity of actualization as people character wise especially by my fellow women and girls that has led me to finally speak up to the masses. It is a very sad world that we the women are currently stuck living! After all the feminism fights we seem to be dragging our own image and our own sisters and way of life in the mud. There is nothing sexy about playing the holier than thou or playing victim because once you are busy doing that you are shamelessly putting to shame all the women's emancipation fights and independence and empowerment fights the courageous women that stood up n fought for those reasons! It wasn't so you could start up a storm and run around crying wolf and playing victim instead of standing still, face the consequences of your actions and apologize if need be! Don't go around telling the world of how you were done so wrong and you were just out of the blue for absolutely no good reason!! That's DESPICABLE!

         Love yourself enough to accept when you make a mistake and work towards making yourself a better person! Playing victim and counting other people's mistakes doesn't make you any better and you can only hide under that for so long. Sooner or later your malice,manipulation,denial and irresponsibility will catch up with you because they are in conjunction with karma. Where she serves you exactly what you deserve she only makes it worse when she let's the people victimized with your 'wolf cry' watch! Aren't we as the 'weaker' sex already victimized enough worldwide for us to victimize and sabotage one another?!?

         No one is perfect! God forbid I ever claim that about me or any other person! Accepting and loving ourselves within first and being willing to change on what needs changing or improving to become better is what's perfect! Once you accept yourself unconditionally; your body, your pain, your weaknesses....no one can take that away from you. No one can even use it against and it harms you like they'd hoped or anticipated. Thus leaving you a winner which automatically makes you STRONGER. None of us are anyone's push overs or doormats.

           Most of us get intimidated by gigantic personalities or are left in awe after meeting them because we think the person must have it all! We believe her life is perfect for her to have it. Most amazingly its usually the latter. Those are women who've been through it all. The good, the bad and the ugly or most of it but still hold their heads up high and accept that in life shit actually happens and accept to live without the apologies they know they are entitled to. Its not about how hard we fall or how bad we fail or how bad n unhappy we are...its how we work with that downhill phase. How we dust ourselves off and climb back uphill. The amazing part is its never easy! Those who do it are heroines!

         Let's all grow up, take responsibilities for our actions and accept we can't always be kissy face and sugar coating things with each other. While in other more sensitive cases, taking advantage of situations with the less 'verbally expressive' people. In my opinion those are even the ones that are more prone to really attack you given half the chance. Because they have high tolerance levels doesn't mean its ok for you to disrespect that. Others decide to let you believe you've won because they are actual ladies and would love people to notice the difference when your head is telling you that you've won when your just displaying despicable attributes such as: unruly,hooliganism and the recently popular terminology known as 'ratchet'.

         We are women and the claws will always come out. But after the claws came how is the aftermath handled?! That's the issue! If you can't see things the same way its ok! Infact it shows your not the bandwagon type and you have a mind of your own! Agree to disagree and move on to better things like discovering a cure for AIDS or Cancer, practicing philanthropy, nation building etc!

           Malice, manipulation, damsel in distress, playing foul, playing victim, crying wolf and all other unorthodox, detrimental and pathetic behaviors we believe are 'cute'! When all they do is get you PITY. Who needs pity?!? Only enemies of progress!! Can we please style up ladies!! I strive on strength, independence, honesty and the ability to accept you did wrong amongst other things. We all should. Sadly, the world's gotten superficial and most of us have succumbed to it while it goes without saying that no one alive loves the smell of burning plastic yet that's exactly what we are owning upto.

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