Thursday, August 21, 2014
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Wednesday, August 20, 2014
PIGEONS TAKE FLIGHT.
We all know the pigeon….this bird can make uncharacteristic
loud noises.
This bird is also one UNSTABLE creature….even a little
breeze leave alone wind makes it take flight. So of course you are all
wondering where this going…..well we have human beings loitering around with
this particular bird’s less attractive characteristics and qualities.
As it is with human nature….WE ALL NEED LOVE. We search
for it. We crave it. We yearn for it. We thirst for it. In some cases it gets
really crazy. Where people go through GRIEF to take abuse and tolerate things
and situations which they wouldn’t tolerate on any normal day just to have that
‘illusion’ of love around you or with you.
Im not an expert on love and like I have stated in my
previous articles….LOYALTY is part of the cornerstones of love. I have
witnessed a whole lot of people sleeping around in the hope of something
evolving from the ‘one-night stand’ or ‘fling’ or ‘friends with benefits’.
Which usually never end up in something meaningful. We should learn to state
our business. Literally. No need to string someone along and toy with their
feelings that’s just downright inhuman.
What do I mean by ‘we should state our business’……if you
are old enough to be having sex then you are old enough to know that feelings
HURT!! Especially when not reciprocated. I mean if you are out to just have fun
then SAY it!! Let the other party decide if they can handle that. If you are
tired of games and waking up in different beds with different partners then
STATE IT! If you have a girlfriend/boyfriend but fidelity is not your virtue….then
please let the ‘side-whatever’ KNOW! At times we get ourselves into situations
that are seriously UNNECESSARY. You attract what you project.
IM NOT PROMOTING INFIDELITY. Im just saying let’s stop
putting ourselves in highly volatile and unnecessary and situations. Because
honestly so many of us out there are just busy ending up in bed with different
partners then catching feelings and ending up in SITUATIONSHIPS!! And the
question is…..WHAT FOR??
If people knew how SACRED, IMPORTANT and VALUABLE
sex/making love is….you wouldn’t be having it with just anyone. Plus there’s
HYGEINE to be considered!!
After all that ‘romping’…..who has your back??? Who can
you call in the middle of the night for help?? Who would come to see you when
you are sick?? Who would hold you when your life is chaotic? Do you really need
‘pigeons’ in your life? Pigeons who take flight at the first sign of trouble? I
don’t think so.
What we all NEED is a SPHINX who’ll hold down the fort
while our worlds are crushing down around us. Someone who’ll love you even when
you don’t love yourself. Someone who’ll believe in you when you don’t believe
in yourself and probably being ridiculed by the society.
Most people don’t believe such people exist….truth is
they do….but they don’t come easy as your ‘romp’ buddies. You will only find
them or they find you when you stop being a pigeon yourself. Clean out your
closet. Raise your own standards by ditching all the bad detrimental habits.
Let the pigeons in you GO!!
Anyone who’s in your life and wants to leave….let them
GO! If they come back..well and good. Sometimes some things need to fall apart
in order to fall back together. Don’t cage a pigeon!! Its MISERY your breeding.
If you TRULY gave any relationship in your life
everything you’ve got and someone still wants to exit for some mistake you made
and can’t seem to get over it….let them GO! Let that be their mistake. The
harsh reality check they’ll get out there will be their cross to carry.
The other characteristic of a pigeon that I haven’t mentioned
and most people don’t know is that they are INTELLIGENT enough to know where ‘HOME’
is…….set your pigeon free if it wants to take flight….if you are where home is…they’ll
be back problem is they aren’t all that ‘punctual’.
So who needs a ‘late’ pigeon when you have a rock solid
SPHINX?? Doesn’t even have to be ‘punctual’.
Let’s stop the pigeon act ourselves first.
Then let’s LET GO of the pigeons in our lives.
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THE FAULT IN OUR 'STARS'.
R ‘STARS’
Been battling with a particular issue for several months
now…..i genuinely don’t know how to express it or what to think of it. All I know
is that its SAD. To the extent that it left me SPEECHLESS and anyone who knows
me well that RARELY happens.
So this particular issue has got a lot to do with
friendship. Yes ‘friendship’. This particular term appears to have lost
meaning. Genuinely. Then the most overrated term is the famous ‘BFF’ (Best
Friends Forever). And I im about to use this term very loosely in conjuction
with the series of dumbfounding events that have transpired for close to a year
now.
There are many crimes, mistakes, transgressions and trespasses
I have made in my lifetime but one mistake no one can ever accuse me of in this
lifetime or the next is DISLOYALTY. Yet as life being the ‘bitch’ she is would
have it….i ended up being accused of this heinous crime. Im using the word ‘henious’
because I GENUINELY despise hypocrisy and ADORE loyalty. So im just here….like…err…..FLABBERGASTED.
Absolutely, sincerely, honestly etc.
I have made a stand especially with this particular trait
that has gotten so SCARCE with our generation and ofcourse I lost friends and
even people I loved because honestly it doesn’t cost a thing yet so valuable
but here we are acting like it doesn’t matter. Like we can leave without it but
truth be told no man is an island. No money in the world can buy it. No amount
of relationships can ever survive without it. People keep trying and failing.
So if its that worthless why cant we live without it??? Because truth be told
whether we like it or not……the epitome of ‘TRUE LOVE’ is LOYALTY. You cannot
love someone if you can't be loyal to that person. It’s a LIE.
So I have been having this ‘BFF’ type of friendship for
close to 20 years now….or rather had. Then my BFF just goes MUTE on me and I knowing
when im not wanted…..i kept I my distance for over 6 months. Made me wonder if
we ever BFFs in the 1st place.
Then the already ‘frozen titanic’ hit the tip of an ‘iceberg’
and a whole GIGANTIC, HUMONGOUS iceberg that was obviously hidden underneath
came to life and of course with women the ‘claws’ came out. And a whole lot of ‘ice’
(accusations) started flying all over the already FROZEN sea.
So apparently out of close to 20 years Gertrude cant seem
to keep her mouth shut about her ‘BFF’…….and im just here like what in the
world im I saying after 20 years that I never said before??? Why now?? I had
20 years to do the ‘talking’! And everyone who knows im a PASSIONATE SPEAKER!!
Then I had an EPIPHANY!!! My ‘BFF’ and I had always led
different lives throughout our friendship! We both belonged to different
circles and had diverse different friends that hardly ever mixed. And everyone
RESPECTED and even FEARED our friendship. Then as fate would have it…our
friendship got thrown into a group of ‘SHARKS’. LITERALLY. Where we had to work
and ‘hang out’ constantly in the same circle due to some venture we were
pursuing.
So in actual sense our friendship had never been tried
and tested. Sure it got scratched….thanks to life throwing around lemons. But
our friendship had never gotten an actual SMACK DOWN. So honestly our friendship
finally got a piece of the pie and got it PROPERLY.
But that’s not the issue. The issue here is……if a
friendship as old as ours didn’t survive the smack down and with its ‘BFF’
status what does that mean??? Were we ever really friends?!
So lets get CANDID. Or rather….UNCENSORED…..I have never
taken a beating lying down and I sure wont start now! You accused me of
spreading the gospel about your personal stuff and issues you were going
through at that particular time. PRECISELY at that particular time. NOT all the
previous 19 years. Correct? Ok. The TRILLION dollar question here is can you
for the life of Christ claim just one particular issue you had at the time that
you told me ALONE??? Just ONE. And you heard it elsewhere??
My darling ‘BFF’ truth be told you got very comfortable
spreading the gospel with EVERYONE who would listen. And the SAME me preaching
it was the one who would chew your head off about telling people who were very
much celebrating behind your back! You gave details that I prided myself as
your ‘BFF’ to carry them. But I would be left DUMBFOUNDED when I find myself
seated with people who were even discussing the same things you had confided in
me. And I was just left wondering……WTF?!????!!!???!! You should have just gone
on and posted them on Al Jazeera! There was clearly NOTHING ‘confidential’
about them. Then as the mask falls off you had the audacity to tell me that you
asked me ‘indirectly’?! SERIOUSLY?? Since when did you and I ask each other
ANYTHING ‘INDIRECTLY’????
So after all is said and done…..you’ve got people in your
boat drilling holes.
We missed phenomenal changes and achievements of each
other’s lives because you couldn’t sit me down like an adult and ‘DIRECTLY’
pour out your grievances and we see the whether we would have moved on and
grown stronger or simply agree to disagree and move on separately in peace.
Such is the ill fate that befell our 20yr old friendship.
I still love but I hate you at the same time.
Time heals all wounds and im counting on it to work
faster in this case.
Yours,
BARED & UNCENSORED,
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Friday, August 15, 2014
HATING
Honestly I'm just left dumbfounded by the little things
human beings would go to great lengths to turn something or someone awesome
into something negative or find ways to ridicule them or 'it'.
There are genuine haters out there no lie. For some people:
you are just a pathological liar with really shallow thinking and are just
mentally WEAK with no solid character and a very shaky personality with very
little or no substance! No one likes you! Don't get it twisted and call people
haters when you genuinely disgust them and call their creative criticism
'hating' when if you'd actually hear them out it would help you. WAKE UP!
Personally, I've been stung relentlessly and at times I was
led to believe that honestly something is wrong with me. I have two faults that
at times I often regret one and other really rare times I'm left to question if
I should work on relinquishing the other. These two unique faults are....the
first is the fact that I love myself unconditionally inside and out. The second
is I've got the abnormal tendency of being abnormally LOYAL even when most
people don't deserve even an iota of it!
They'll come crying about their issues with a spouse, a
friend, a relative, a colleague, a neighbour even their pet! Then turn against you
when you show your support and loyalty when you act just the way you'd expect
someone who 'claims' to be loyal to you to. So you give the 'culprits'
(offending or causing harm to the person your loyal to) the cold shoulder,shut
them up even before they start 'hating' on your loved one though at times they
are really just telling their side of the story,throw daggers at them with your
eyes or even threaten to cripple them if they cause your loved one any more
harm or unhappiness.
Then your loved one ends up treating you like the villain!
And your left wondering how in the world you could be so hopelessly loyal and
get burnt because of it! Then other downside is that no one stands up for you
when shit hits the fan or when push comes to shove. Everyone appears to believe
the other party concerned or believe the worst about you in the situation. So
what if you made a mistake or said the worst thing possible? I'm human! And I'm
a work in progress! I never said I'm perfect! I never said I don't or won't
make mistakes! Plus I know I lack tolerance and I'm a really bad listener plus
I have someone else inside me I believe when I get angry who just ties me up
and literally jumps out and handles the person offending or annoying me. Just
to name but a few of my faults. But you who runs off to call me a mean bitch! Or
go on to preach how horrible a person i am and how you are such a victim in the
whole scenario. How are you any better? Honestly projecting how you've been
victimized isn't honest or genuine. Its pity you'll get and the what? Will it
make you any closer to God or make you any better? Do you what the people your
preaching to about me say after your gone about you?! Because your thinking is
so already biased! Time ALWAYS unearths the truth and genuine characters no
matter how badly slandered will always land on their feet.
Yours
sincerely;
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